Gender represents one of fundamental aspects of an individual’s identity. Through sexual scripts and societal expectations and norms, gender is inextricably tied with sexuality, playing a major role in attracting sexual partners and being under the significant effect of sexual stereotypes. The goal of this research is to examine the role gender plays within the asexual identity, primarily focusing on explaining the gender divisions within the asexual community in which women and non-binary individuals are in majority, with men in the minority. The research was of the qualitative type, conducted through an online questioner in English. The questioner consisted of nine demographic questions and nine open-ended questions constructed on the basis of previous research. The data of 503 participants, recruited from social media sites with a significant asexual population, was processed. 45% of the participants were women, 44% non-binary people, 8% men and 3% people were questioning their gender at the time of the survey. The results were analyzed using the method of thematic analysis according to the example of Braun and Clarke (2006). The obtained data reveal that asexual individuals notice a strong connection between the concepts of sexuality and gender, whereby sexuality is seen as something that strengthens the definition of gender and gives it meaning. Asexual respondents may experience a sense of distance and lack of connection with their gender identity, seeing it as unimportant because it’s not 'used'. Asexuality encouraged consideration of one's own gender identity, and served as access to the LGBT+ community and to resources and identities that an individual would not have had access to before. Different gender groups have different experiences with asexuality. Women are under the pressure of strong sexualization of their gender identity and indirect pressures like expectations of children, marriage and modern feminist standards. Male participants faced a strong connection between their gender and sexuality, due to which male asexuality was socially rejected as impossible. Non-binary participants struggled with the expectations of sexuality of non-binary identities, but a lack of social knowledge freed their asexual orientation from sexual norms and stereotypes. Despite the differences between the experiences of different gender groups, the prevailing feeling among the participants is that society does not accept asexuality in anyone, and that only specific problems, that are the product of social rejection, differ by gender.