| Abstract | S obzirom na to da, postoje različite percepcije o tome koje značajke osoba treba posjedovati u određenoj socijalnoj ulozi kao što je recimo uloga partnera/ice, parovi se upuštaju u ljubavne veze sa širokim spektrom vjerovanja vezanim za romantične odnose. Vjerovanja o ljubavnim vezama odraz su kulturalne norme prototipa onog što se označava kao idealna veza, ali smatra se ipak da su iskustva i znanja koja se steknu u primarnoj obitelji osnovni izvor tih vjerovanja. Stoga, cilj ovog istraživanja bio je ispitati vjerovanja o ljubavnim vezama u kontekstu dimenzija privrženosti prema majci i ocu. U istraživanju je sudjelovalo 280 sudionika pri čemu je 43 % bilo muškog, a 57 % ženskog spola dobnog raspona od 18 do 33 godine. Kao mjera za ispitivanje vjerovanja o ljubavnim vezama korištene su dvije subskale Neslaganje je destruktivno i Očekuje se čitanje misli Inventara vjerovanja o vezama (Eidelson i Epstein, 1982; Jakšić, 2018), a u svrhu ispitivanja privrženosti majci i ocu primijenjen je Upitnik strukture veza (Fraley i sur., 2011; Soldo, 2016). Nije utvrđeno da se muškarci i žene u prosjeku značajno razlikuju u vjerovanju da je neslaganje destruktivno i da se očekuje čitanje misli, te u vjerovanju da se očekuje čitanje misli s obzirom na status veze. Međutim, utvrđeno je da sudionici koji nisu u vezi u prosjeku više prihvaćaju vjerovanje da je neslaganje destruktivno u odnosu na one koji su u vezi. Nije utvrđen interakcijski efekt spola i statusa veze na iracionalna vjerovanja o ljubavnim vezama. Nadalje sudionici se ne razlikuju značajno na dimenzijama privrženosti za majku i za oca s obzirom na status veze te na dimenziji anksioznosti u odnosu s majkom s obzirom na spol, dok je za ostale dimenzije razlika utvrđena. U prosjeku muškarci postižu viši rezultat na dimenziji izbjegavanja za majku te na obje dimenzije kad je riječ o ocu, u odnosu na žene. Također, utvrđeno je da sudionici koji više prihvaćaju vjerovanje da se očekuje čitanje misli postižu niže rezultate na dimenziji izbjegavanja za majku i obratno, a sudionici s većim rangom na subskali Neslaganje je destruktivno imaju i veći rang na dimenziji anksioznosti za oca i obratno. Ostali korelacijski koeficijenti nisu se pokazali značajnim. |
| Abstract (english) | Considering there are different perceptions of what characteristics a person should possess in a particular social role, such as the role of a partner, couples engage in love relationships with a wide range of beliefs related to romantic relationships. Beliefs about love relationships are a reflection of the cultural norms of the prototype of presumably ideal relationships, but it is still considered that the experiences and knowledge gained in the primary family are the basic source of these beliefs. Therefore, the aim of this study was to examine beliefs about love relationships in the context of the dimensions of attachment to mother and father. The study involved 280 participants, of whom 42.8% were male and 57.2% female aged 18 to 33 years. As a measure of beliefs about love relationships two subscales were used, Disagreement is Destructive and Mindreading is expected of Relationship Belief Inventory (Eidelson i Epstein, 1982; Jakšić, 2018) and for the purpose of examining attachment to mother and father Relationship Structures Questionnaire was applied (Fraley i sur., 2011; Soldo, 2016). On average participants were not found to significantly differ in believing that disagreement was destructive and that mind reading was expected with respect to gender, and in belief that mind reading was expected with respect to relationship. However, it was found that participants who are not in a relationship, on average, accept the belief that disagreement is destructive more, than those who are in a relationship. The analysis of the results did not reveal a statistically significant interaction effect of gender and relationship status on irrational beliefs about love relationships. Furthermore, participants did not differ significantly on the dimensions of attachment for mother and father with respect to relationship status, and on the dimension of anxiety in relation to mother regarding gender, while for other dimensions differences were found. On average, men score higher on the avoidance dimension for the mother, and on both dimensions when it comes to the father, compared to women. Also, participants who accept more the belief that mind reading is expected achieve lower scores on the avoidance dimension for the mother and vice versa, and participants with a higher ranking on the subscale Disagreement is Destructive have a higher rank on the anxiety dimension for the father and vice versa. Other correlation coefficients were not found statistically significant. |
